Good questions

Not until you want them to. Plot with the group first, then send the VIP their reveal link when you're ready.

No app and no account. They scan the QR code or tap the link, tick the Terms once, and they're in.

Three packages, all one-off with no subscription: Private £9.99, Party £14.99 and Legendary £19.99. Build your whole site first and you only pay when you publish. Start small and want more later? Upgrade and pay just the difference.

You're in charge. Dares wilder than your setting wait for your OK, you can approve everything first if you like, hide or delete anything in one tap, block a guest, and pause new posts with one switch. Guests can report things too.

On Party and Legendary, every photo gets five AI roast captions. Guests pick their favourite, or write their own. Your wild setting decides how harsh they get. Switch roasts off and the captions turn into compliments instead. Private sites don't get AI captions.

You set the dial from 1 to 5 when you build. It decides which dares go straight up, how savage the roasts are and how much swearing shows. Anything past your line waits for your OK.

Once the photos close, your site stays up, read-only, for 30 days. Then the public page closes, and your photos stay in your dashboard for 1 month before everything is deleted.

Yes. Download every photo at full size from your dashboard, with the dares and the advice as spreadsheets, before the site closes.

Yes. The printable kit has a T-shirt transfer for iron-on transfer paper, and you can download the code as an SVG for a vinyl cutter to cut in iron-on vinyl and press onto the stag or hen outfit. Mirror it first, and keep it big enough to scan.

Private is a locked-door site for your inner circle: link, QR code or PIN to get in, and no roasts. Its QR code carries the key, so only people you show it to get in, and you can stop guests passing it on. Party opens the doors with a QR code anyone can scan, AI roasts on every photo and a printable kit. Legendary is Party with room for a proper crowd, no Eventable branding, clean photo downloads and extra finishing touches.

You share a link in your group chat. Opening it lets people straight in; the key is tucked out of sight, so copying the address from the browser doesn't copy the key. Anyone you tell the 4-digit PIN can type it in instead. There's a QR code too, with the key built in, for printing or showing on a screen where the right people will see it.

Only as private as the people you invite. Anyone with the link, QR code or PIN can get in, and anyone you've told can forward them, so keep them to people you trust. You can switch off guests sharing the QR code and link, and search engines never see it. Photos still get an AI check before they go up, a lighter one than on public sites, and you can remove anything or block anyone yourself.

You can move up any time and pay only the difference. Moving down isn't possible, because photos and posts may already be on the site.

Yes. Every site lives at its own address with the name you pick, like daves-stag.eventable.vip. It's what the QR code opens and the link you send round the group, so it's their website, not a page on ours.